I’m getting married tomorrow
Tomorrow I will be married. Married to my best friend and in the most spectacular of settings, on Italy’s Amalfi Coast, in the town of Positano.
Surrounded by 21 of our nearest and dearest, celebrating our love and affection for one another and thoroughly enjoying ourselves.
This decision to get married and in this way was, although simple, one which I truthfully didn’t know could reveal so much to, and about me.
Getting married was not on my radar, it wasn’t part of my plan.
{insert shock horror here}
I have always enjoyed my own company and understood the power of this; it has been more important than being with someone for the sake of it. Don’t get me wrong I know this isn’t always the reason that people want to be married though the motivation to be in such a position sometimes comes from a less than- independent headspace. Humans often want to be with other humans more than we want to, or can be, alone.
Of course that’s easy to say when you haven’t felt overwhelming, genuine, supportive and incredible love you might be saying?
Even then it still took me a little while to get on board with the idea. Read more